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Living with ADHD children is always entertaining....tonight is no exception.
When it comes to homework, most kids just want to get through it and be done with it. Except for a couple of ours. They will write anything (and I mean anything) down just to fill in the paper and say "Its Done!". Except of course when mom and I read it and find out that the capital of Estonia is "I like Unicorns".
Tonight Tyler was doing his science homework and for the last half hour, we went through each sentence in a paragraph debating on why that sentence was not the answer. Here's an example.
Tyler: I CAN'T DO THIS!
Me: Yes you can, what is the question?
Tyler: WHY do PLANTS someTIMES have THICK STEMS?!
Me: OK, and what does the paragraph say?
Tyler: I DON'T KNOW!
Me: Well, maybe you should read it.
Tyler: OH MY GOD, I HAVE TO READ THE WHOLE THING (ed: paragraph is four sentences long).
Me: Yes, that's your homework, you need to read it.
Tyler; OH MY GOD, JUST FORGET IT, I'LL TAKE THE "F".
Me: No you won't. You will do this homework and if you don't, it will be waiting for you in the morning.
(insert 20 minutes of the same argument, of which I've walked away three times from his crap)
Me: Tyler, it's simple. Do it. You have wasted 20 minutes of play time complaining about the home work when you could have had it done!
Tyler: FINE, but I DON'T WANT TO!
Me; Finally, thank you.
(insert 30 seconds of writng the correct answer down).
On to Question #2.
Tyler: OH MY GOD!!!! MORE QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!
Comments
I have a 13 yr old who does the same thing, and he doesn't have adhd, but wtpmos - (ways to piss mom off syndrome) :/ if he makes it to his 14th birthday it'll be a miracle and I deserve sainthood.
Posted by: Lynne
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April 18, 2006 10:12 PM
thankfully my 14 year old has grown out of it (a bit). She requires supervision, but she will generally get her homework done.
Posted by: Brian Wohlgemuth
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April 18, 2006 11:02 PM
what peeves me off more is he pulls in 85+ on most subjects during exams and never picks up a book. I was hoping he'd get a clue and try for those 90's so he could get at least a half scholarship to the high school he wants to go to.
Posted by: Lynne
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April 20, 2006 9:22 AM